In my
little corner of the world in my home, we are well. Thank you, God! I’ve had
four writing presentations at area libraries and assisted living homes
cancelled so far. My next presentation is scheduled on April 10th. Here’s
hoping life will be up and running by then.
But.
I’m searching for solitude to
write. To create. The state has closed my library. I hide in my room, with the
door locked. But everyone in my family still remembers how to giggle the
doorknob and call my name. It’s amazing!
My oldest, who has learning
issues, is trying to sign up for unemployment. Yes! Like thousands of other
people in the United States. And guess what? She can’t do it alone, so we are trying
to assist. And we are having trouble getting through. No surprise. But another
part of her disability is no patience—and whining.
With all the difficulties in the
world, it’s important to stay positive. So I’m starting with my thoughts. We
are healthy. We are together, for the most part. We share meals. We check in on
our friends and the elderly by phone. Flowers and trees are popping and spring
is here in the northern hemisphere.
And if the Lord blesses me with
a scrap of dialogue or a sentence of illumination for my memoir about attending
college as a mother of five, or if I have another short story idea, I write them
on pieces of paper and stick them in a binder with two labels: Memoir and Short
Stories. Then I shove the binder under my bed and lock my room.
I truly hope you and your loved ones
are safe and well. How do you find time and space to write in these difficult
times?
I’ll be interested to see how
you’ve tackled this month’s question. It’s great having a topic to share our
thoughts on each month. I am extremely thankful for all of you for being my
sounding board and advisors in this writing and publishing game.
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Hi Victoria - all the best at this time ... I just need to sort myself out - and that can be challenging at times ... always something else to do - now = no ... I must get on! All the best to you and yours - take care ... Hilary
ReplyDeleteIt's always a pleasure seeing you here at Adventures in Writing, Hilary. What a perfect equation for my life today. I'm trying, though. I hope you are well and can "sort yourself out."
DeleteThanks so much for your note. Enjoy your weekend! And be safe!
Glad your family is healthy and together. That's what's important. My daughter and her boyfriend just live down the street in an apartment and are staying in and not seeing anyone. It would make this isolation a lot easier for me if I could see my daughter once in awhile.
ReplyDeleteYou are correct, Natalie. Family togetherness is important. But at the same time, I understand why my other two children who live farther away are keeping their distance. I facetime them when I can, but it's not the same.
DeleteThank you so much for your comment here at Adventures in Writing. Have a beautiful weekend and be safe!
We do have to look for the blessings in all this. I hope you get your daughter signed up for unemployment.
ReplyDeleteJust got through today, believe it or not. Sheesh! Yes, Alex, remembering our blessings and being thankful can help us survive this mess.
DeleteThank you so much for your comment here at Adventures in Writing. All best to you, sir, and be safe!
As I've told some others, you'll miss them when they are gone. So focus on what you have while you have them. ;-)
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Absolutely, Anna! So very true. I treasured all their growing up years. It's just that by now, I thought I had earned a little peace and quiet. Dire circumstances, Vic. Of course, even on a regular basis, a few of my children stop by with their little ones...usually when I'm knee deep in story.
DeleteThank you so much for your comment here at Adventures in Writing. Have a beautiful weekend and be safe!
We're safe. I'm having major computer issues around my mail, so that's actually helping. LOL. Can't believe I just said that. haha
ReplyDeleteYikes! Please don't bring up computer issues. I am convinced that my laptop hates me. But let's not talk about that now. I'm so glad you are safe, Joylene. Please stay that way!
DeleteThank you so much for your note here at Adventures in Writing. Have a beautiful weekend and be safe!
We should never lose sight of the blessings. I hope your daughter gets things worked out. My two oldest are trying to get that stuff through as well. Hold on to the positive moments!
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely never let go of those "positive moments." They are the only things that keep us sane. We just got my daughter's application finished today! Persistence won out! All the luck with your children getting through it.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your note here at Adventures in Writing. Have a beautiful weekend and be safe!
I’m happy to read you and your loved ones are doing well, Victoria. Interesting, how life has come full circle with everyone at your home again during this pandemic.
ReplyDeleteI find it extremely hard to focus and concentrate during these times of hardship. So, I’m taking a break right now and do the things I enjoy most: hiking with our dog, catching up with people via emails, social media, and blogging, and trying to read in a book again. I’m not going to feel guilty about this for a change! Take care!
Good for you, Liesbet! I must admit, my husband and I tackled a small section of the Appalachian Trail last Sunday. It felt good to be out in the fresh air. We had a beautiful day. And we weren't alone on the trail, either. Other families were looking for fresh air, too.
ReplyDeleteYou are so right. It is truly difficult to focus during this time. I'm glad you are well. Breathe and enjoy your hikes. It's always a pleasure seeing you here at Adventures in Writing. Be safe, my dear!
Glad to hear you are all together and staying healthy.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Juneta. I hope you and your family are well, too. It's always a pleasure seeing you here at Adventures in Writing. Be safe, my dear!
DeleteGlad to hear you're doing okay. Sheltering in place is a blessing in disguise. While I miss seeing my g'kids in person, thank goodness for technology. FaceTime really helps. I won't take for granted those hugs and slobbery kisses again. :) Stay safe.
ReplyDeleteYes, I facetime too, Diane. But I truly miss my hugs and kisses. Thank you so much for your note here at Adventures in Writing. Have a beautiful week and be safe!
ReplyDeleteGlad you and your family are well. Mine is too. I'm taking advantage of Zoom meetings, talking on the phone more and social distancing with neighbors and family. But, yeah, I miss the hugs and kisses. Take care.
ReplyDeleteSo glad to hear you are all well, Dawn! Truly, I miss my hugs and kisses though. I'm trying to catch up on my podcast classes and keep up with social media, too. With the trees and flowers popping so beautifully, I'm "social distancing" with my neighbors as well.
ReplyDeleteStay well, my friend. Thank you so much for your note here at Adventures in Writing. Have a beautiful week!