tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post558506405319569769..comments2024-01-29T07:10:21.215-05:00Comments on Adventures in Writing: One Woman's Journey: Insecure Writers want to know: Did you ever say “I quit”? If so, what happened to make you come back to writing?Victoria Marie Leeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-44453000623601322462017-08-30T19:55:14.392-04:002017-08-30T19:55:14.392-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.شوقي عوضhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14672210301597611753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-23194391393579719552017-07-05T05:15:36.394-04:002017-07-05T05:15:36.394-04:00Thank you for this, Michelle. It's true. Not e...Thank you for this, Michelle. It's true. Not everyone will enjoy my stories, but that's no reason to stop writing them for the readers who will. It's always a pleasure seeing you here at Adventures in Writing. Enjoy your week!Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-76547600201229287512017-07-05T05:13:27.920-04:002017-07-05T05:13:27.920-04:00Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Lori! ...Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Lori! Your words are truly inspiring. I can't thank you enough for them. And you are absolutely right. Writers have to write. It's a need for them. My stories, my poetry, will always be an important part of my life. Thank you again for your kindness in leaving me encouragement, Lori. All the best to you!Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-54727022308228446232017-07-05T05:08:52.367-04:002017-07-05T05:08:52.367-04:00Thank you so much for your kind words. They mean t...Thank you so much for your kind words. They mean the world to me. It certainly is an excruciating wait, but nibbles are starting to happen. After all, you are here, and so are others, giving me confidence. And I've had a few short stories published. Thanks again for visiting Adventures in Writing and offering me hope. It is truly appreciated. Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-36836410902073338382017-06-23T20:20:05.955-04:002017-06-23T20:20:05.955-04:00Never give up on your dream of writing. Not everyo...Never give up on your dream of writing. Not everyone will like your writing, but that should never stop you. Michelle Maderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15128626141907277816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-11703185974572185202017-06-20T21:59:30.965-04:002017-06-20T21:59:30.965-04:00All writers have doubts, but to let those doubts t...All writers have doubts, but to let those doubts take over and keep you from writing would be like cutting out part of your soul. Writers have to write. It's part of their being. Never give it up. Let it ebb and flow around all the wonderful memories you're making, as much a part of your life as they are. Your life will be so much the richer for it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-32186081251104792952017-06-19T02:13:36.028-04:002017-06-19T02:13:36.028-04:00Oh, Victoria, I hear ya--this gig is SO tough some...Oh, Victoria, I hear ya--this gig is SO tough sometimes, especially when you feel no one but you cares about your stories. But stick with it, and there will be signs--little at first, then bigger--that you were meant to be a writer and that you have readers.<br /><br />It's worth the excruciating wait.J.H. Moncrieffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18045467689291025137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-31305895235032499822017-06-13T11:18:48.382-04:002017-06-13T11:18:48.382-04:00Liesbet, thank you for helping me see what I could...Liesbet, thank you for helping me see what I couldn't see before. Balance is truly key to keeping yourself sane and finding happiness in life. And yes, daily priorities can change in anyone's life. We need to move in the wind of life or break because of it. So glad to hear that you will never quit either. More power to us.<br /><br />Thanks so much for your kind words and for visiting Adventures in Writing. Please stop by again.<br /> Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-77712221076396213782017-06-13T04:51:54.939-04:002017-06-13T04:51:54.939-04:00The most beautiful thing I get from your post is t...The most beautiful thing I get from your post is that you know what you want and you make the right decisions to find a balance and to do what you are meant to do - create or reproduce stories. Everything is a balance and our priorities change, but when you know in your heart what you want to do and you manage to follow through with that, I'd say that is the way to happiness! <br /><br />I enjoy writing as well, but the desire is not as deeply ingrained as it is with you and when life gets in the way or other passions take over, I have to be OK with it and not feel guilty. I'll write when my schedule and lifestyle allows, but I will never totally quit either. :-)Liesbethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13402741679152508367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-84777911915743100192017-06-11T07:57:45.524-04:002017-06-11T07:57:45.524-04:00Thank you, Lynda, for these inspiring words. If wr...Thank you, Lynda, for these inspiring words. If writers think of their choices in this way, we are guaranteed to believe in ourselves. Always a pleasure seeing you here at Adventures in Writing. All the best to you, my dear.Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-11560972557718959162017-06-11T07:53:57.765-04:002017-06-11T07:53:57.765-04:00Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing! I thin...Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing! I think you are right. It is only quitting if you never do it again. Thanks so much for your encouraging words. Please stop by Adventures in Writing again. All the best to you! Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-82059186891001283082017-06-08T19:10:42.365-04:002017-06-08T19:10:42.365-04:00I sometimes think we are cursed as writers because...I sometimes think we are cursed as writers because there is no changing what's deep within us. Then I remember that in fact we are blessed to be able to express ourselves and share our stories in a creative way that makes others respond. You said, "Writers need to believe in themselves." So, so true.Lynda R Young as Elle Cardyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975442291393246148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-53191078964879017922017-06-08T14:08:36.534-04:002017-06-08T14:08:36.534-04:00It's only quitting if you never pick it back u...It's only quitting if you never pick it back up again. Good luck on piecing that "trail" together bit by bit. ;)A. B. Keuserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15152107659542138178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-5673898287688740412017-06-08T12:22:49.091-04:002017-06-08T12:22:49.091-04:00Thank you for your kind words, Juneta. They are gr...Thank you for your kind words, Juneta. They are greatly appreciated. Interacting with other writers is key to keeping us sane for sure. Your encouragement is truly appreciated. <br /><br />Thanks again for your comment here at Adventures in Writing. All the best to you! Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-73558140671938931882017-06-08T12:17:47.481-04:002017-06-08T12:17:47.481-04:00Jennifer, sharing your expertise and inspiration w...Jennifer, sharing your expertise and inspiration with me is a treasure I can never thank you enough for. Thank you for introducing me to Martha Graham's genius. Her words will resonate within my mind and keep me open to my own "unique" expression, my own writing. I shouldn't worry about what others' think, just express my feelings and hope they resonate with others. <br /><br />Always a pleasure seeing you here at Adventures in Writing. All the best to you, my dear. Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-60928570013121242492017-06-08T11:58:35.462-04:002017-06-08T11:58:35.462-04:00Hilary, you are so wonderful to me. I do keep jour...Hilary, you are so wonderful to me. I do keep journals of our camping adventures and try to get the children to jot down their feelings and memories of our journeys. However, anecdotes are not fully-developed stories. They are merely seeds for the imagination, fledgling ideas to contemplate.<br /><br />Thanks so much for your encouraging words, Hilary. It's always a pleasure seeing you here at Adventure in Writing. Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-65285125189027027312017-06-08T11:52:43.806-04:002017-06-08T11:52:43.806-04:00Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Cathy....Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Cathy. Thanks so much for following my blog.<br /><br />It's true writing makes me happy, but it is difficult with all the foot traffic in my home to find that solitary moment to be able to think straight and create a well-plotted story. <br /><br />Thanks for your note. All the best to you, Cathy! Please stop by Adventures in Writing again.Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-74961321987797483672017-06-08T11:47:24.954-04:002017-06-08T11:47:24.954-04:00Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Madeli...Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Madeline. Thanks so much for your encouraging words. They mean the world to me. <br /><br />This is so true, Madeline. Not every writer can be a bestseller. But that doesn't mean we can't try. All the best to you! Please stop by Adventures in Writing again.Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-89452829745918239902017-06-08T08:33:17.397-04:002017-06-08T08:33:17.397-04:00I love your thoughts on just because we can't ...I love your thoughts on just because we can't do the whole thing (hike the entire trail, etc) doesn't mean we can't do part of it. It doesn't have to be all or nothing. We don't have to be mega-bestsellers to be writers. :)Madeline Mora-Summontehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05529397293165046430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-17270834448825078972017-06-08T04:30:55.722-04:002017-06-08T04:30:55.722-04:00Writing is a very solitary activity, but those who...Writing is a very solitary activity, but those who do it are the ones who probably would be solitary, anyway. I know I am. If someone is more inclined to get out into the world and live in it, then they better accept writing full-time is going to require they give it up, for the most part. It's just how the lifestyle needs to be and our families/friends have to put up with it.<br /><br />I contemplate quitting for different reasons, but still do because it's so hard to get good at it. I think we just have to recognize that it's what we want to do with our lives and just keep going. If nothing else will make you happy, then it's the right path.Cathy Keatonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18356112948372149785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-10611342386337266592017-06-08T03:28:23.008-04:002017-06-08T03:28:23.008-04:00Hi Victoria - excellent heart-rending post ... you...Hi Victoria - excellent heart-rending post ... you will succeed and you can start this off now - remember those memories as they occur - they don't need to be well written, just jotted down - may be a jot notebook ... then they'll be recorded, or via an email to self using the voice recorder on the phone ... just copy them off into a file ... or some other format that makes sense to you - doesn't take much time ... but you'll have them there for reference. Stories will come out of them later on - ease off the conferences, etc ...do the odd one perhaps ... but your writing will get the light of day - you'll be more relaxed, you'll be building your building blocks of stories ... and you'll have that extra time for the family ... hope this makes sense?! Cheers HilaryHilary Melton-Butcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17596532480645510678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-75283872694452866582017-06-07T19:34:33.035-04:002017-06-07T19:34:33.035-04:00Martha Graham said, "... because there is onl...Martha Graham said, "... because there is only one of you in all time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable it is nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open. You do not even have to believe in yourself or your work. ... Keep the channel open. ..."Jennifer R. Hubbardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03408588432492354248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-44571148614955589772017-06-07T17:16:14.392-04:002017-06-07T17:16:14.392-04:00Yeah, I may feel like quitting but never do. Grea...Yeah, I may feel like quitting but never do. Great post. <br />Interacting with other writers helps me. I am part of this group, Holly Lisle course forms, K M Weiland's Wordplayers, Ninja Writers and a couple other through courses. Most of mine are active so it can really help life my spirits and inspire. <br /><br />Hang in there. You have some great memories. <br /><a href="http://www.junetakey.com/posts/category/blog-life-happens/" rel="nofollow"> Juneta @ Writer's Gambit </a>vvvv<br /><br /><a href="http://www.junetakey.com/posts/category/blog-life-happens/" rel="nofollow"> Juneta @ Writer's Gambit </a>Juneta keyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08815758043024184034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-23344225581765469462017-06-07T13:57:43.703-04:002017-06-07T13:57:43.703-04:00Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Jen! T...Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Jen! Thanks so much for your kind words. They mean the world to me. <br /><br />Your suggestion of taking the summer off sounds like such a good idea, giving the mind a much needed rest. Writing is truly in my blood as well.<br /><br />All the best to you! Please stop by Adventures in Writing again.Victoria Marie Leeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05294868315757138169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5220588443545007238.post-57011844642722954982017-06-07T13:40:54.934-04:002017-06-07T13:40:54.934-04:00This is such a good post. So real and honest. I ha...This is such a good post. So real and honest. I haven't quit. I've tried, many times. Like you, I wondered what else I could be doing with my life: crafting, starting a business, relaxing. But even when I took a break last summer, I ended up with two story ideas while "quitting". I knew then that writing is in my blood and will never leave me alone. And I'm OK with that. Life is important, though, and so are the memories. I'm taking another break this summer to recharge and see where one particular story is taking me. I need to just be: with myself, my family and friends, and this story, not the million others clamoring for my attention.<br /><br />Keep writing! <br />Jen<br />PS: New follower here :DJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06683486631901017529noreply@blogger.com